You Gave Your Word

 “He who is slowest in making a promise is most faithful in its performance.”

Jean Jacques Rousseau

1712-1778

Philosopher

 

In the classic book Mary Poppins, Mary warns the Banks children not to make “a pie-crust promise…easily made, easily broken.” This piece of good advice should be followed more today. There are far too many “pie-crust promises” being given to far too many people. So many promises have been made that were intended to be broken, we seldom really notice any more. A person of their word is a hard thing to find.

People who believe in the importance of good character should always be people of their word. If you promised something, it is your responsibility to see that the promise is kept. Scottish Poet Robert Service (1874-1958) claimed, “A promise made is a debt unpaid.” Whether it is as simple as promising a meeting time or as detailed as a wedding vow, you must keep your word. There is nothing that speaks of trustworthiness more than the ability to keep your word once it has been given.

During my years of being a pastor, I have had the misfortune of knowing many people who would make an appointment time and always show up late. They think this is no big deal and are shocked to receive a rebuke from the person waiting. This tells others that you cannot be trusted to keep your word and not depend on you for important things. In business, this can spell disaster. Alexander Hamilton (1755-1804), one of America’s founding fathers, said, “A promise must never be broken.”

People of good character should know that the less you promise, the more freedom you have in life. I am not saying to make a promise, but understand that it is for keeps when you do. You cannot promise today what you do not intend to fulfill tomorrow. Be a person of your word, be on time, do what you say you will do, deliver the product or service you say you will when you say you will do it. You will find that people will respect and depend on you. If there is business to be done, most people will do it with the person they trust, even over cost.

Now, allow me to ask you for a promise. I believe you will find this a little burden to bear. It comes from one of my favorite philosophers, Winnie the Pooh, “Promise me you’ll always remember: You’re braver than you believe and stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think.” – A.A. Milne (1882-1956) Author.

 

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